Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. Tag Team Parenting is built for one-sided use. You can send messages, run daily check-ins, lock in BIFF templates, and document everything from your account alone. Your co-parent is invited only when you choose, and they can read what you send without ever logging in or installing the app. The system is structured so that your improvements work even if your ex never replies, never signs up, or actively tries to disrupt the process.

Your messages, check-ins, and notes sit in your account and the connected co-parent's account. Nobody else can read them — not other users, not advertisers, not us for marketing purposes. The only people who ever see what you wrote are the people you wrote it to. We do not sell data, do not run third-party trackers on the messaging surface, and do not use your drafts to train any third-party model. The BIFF tone-checker sends a draft for scoring only at the moment you click "Check tone" and does not store it.

Yes — and that is the point. Everything you send or receive through the app is timestamped, attributed to a specific account, and stored in a clean, exportable timeline. If your situation ever needs a mediator, custody evaluator, or family court, you have a dated, factual record of what was actually said and when. Messages are short and BIFF-shaped by default, which makes them harder to misread after the fact. You can export the full thread as PDF or CSV from your account at any time, in two clicks.

It is built for them first. High-conflict co-parenting is the original use case — the BIFF templates, the documented communication channel, the parallel-parenting-friendly structure, and the tone-checker all exist to reduce conflict and protect your record. The app does not assume your ex will be reasonable; it assumes they will not. If your situation involves a difficult, narcissistic, or avoidant co-parent, the system is built around that reality, not the cooperative one.

Tag Team Parenting is for separated or divorced parents who want a calmer, more documented communication channel with the other parent of their kids. It is most useful when your ex is uncooperative, emotionally reactive, manipulative, or simply hard to reach. It is not for couples still deciding whether to separate, not for parents in active emergency situations involving safety (those need a lawyer and law enforcement first), and not for households with no other parent involved at all.